photogenic, I haven’t heard of such a concept, but I’m sure it has some basis. But I would say that anything really great in life (which includes finding your spouse) doesn’t come easy, and the reason for that is because we then appreciate it more when we finally DO get it. Something that comes really easy we generally don’t appreciate as much. So whether or not the yezter hara/ satan is the culprit for the “obstacles” in the way, we should try to look at these obstacles as a means of helping us gain more appreciation for what we are working so hard for. Then, the obstacles will become building blocks for a meaningful relationship, G-d willing!
Wishing you all the best.