PM: Chas Veshalom. Just because your Posek does not accept a Heter or you would not do it yourself does not mean that as far as you are concerned the Heter doesn’t exist. You can’t use it; as long as it’s legitimate it still exists.
And I meant that it’s possible there are reasons to be more Meikil on hair than anything else with Tznius. See the Shulchan Aruch (don’t have the precise Siman in front of me, somewhere in that 75-80 section).