Reply To: kiruv- no interest in shabbos?

Thankyou for everyone that replied and or had any suggestions. i apreciate it so much!

KAPUSTA-thankyou! thats exactly what i told her and im sure its definatly halachicly correct because its obviously better than not keeping it at all.

YAACOV- thankyou for your advice! I did tell her that no matter what she will ofcourse! always be my friend and that she does not have to do anything she doesnt feel ready for, we are great friends. I have tried to show her how beautiful it is but shes not the type to be amazed abt. “wow it just feels so holy”she knows its very important so i think she is trying she just feels she cant do it.I really did want to know from a BTs point of view. How did you learn to apreciate shabbos and realize that you dont need to have your computer or phone ect. on shabbos,ik its really hard for her and i just dont completly understand because i was frum from birth so its hard to feel like ik exactly what she is feeling.I was actually trying to think of different things that she/we could do on shabbos together so that it wouldnt seem boring to her and it would feel the same as any other day if not more kodesh rather than feeling just boring.if anyone has any ideas i think that would be a great way for her to get into apreciating shabbos 🙂

SHOWERZINGER-thats very similair to this situation actually and im trying to convince her to just start from the beginning and take gradual “baby steps”