Why did she originally decide to become frum? I would suggest going to a Discovery weekend. I think they are provided by Aish, sorry not sure, been in EY too long. I came from a background where my sisters did teshuva more than 10 years before me, but I thought they were ??? (not normal in the head). Then I went to Discovery (didn’t know what it was or I might actually not have gone) and when I heard the talk about the codes and realized that it was all emes, I knew I had no choice but to do what was written. A lot of times people think they want to be frum on one level, but then the yetzer hara comes in and starts giving them excuses from making progress. Understanding the reasons for being frum help us be able to fight the YH.
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