When you think about what is best, one really needs to consider the children first and then what is best for the parents. Parents make the decision to bring the children into the world and not the other way around. If you choose to do so, you are OBLIGATED to those precious beings first and foremost. If that is NOT stimulation enough then let Hashem give those precious neshomas to someone who can appreciate them better. They are not born to be taken for granted. I know, I co-parented many teens who felt utterly neglected for various selfish reasons. It was a very tough job helping them build relationships with their parents.
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