My gosh!!!!!
Don’t you guys get it? The kids have no feeling for Shabbos. They are bored and dread Shabbos, that means they have NO CLUE what Shabbos is, what its all about and what its for. Likely that stems from the parent having no feelings for Shabbos. If Shabbos is just a day off, a day to take it easy relax schmooze with your buddies, fress and sleep and get drunk for some (kiddish clubs) then Shabbos has no Kedusha and if it has no Kedusha your kids will take it to the next step and be mechallel Shabbos.