It sounds like she just wants a friend. Do you read at all? Cook? Maybe you can bring the “guys, movies, music” to kosher reading, recipes etc. If she is so emotionally dependent on her boy”friend”, its probably because she feels important and that someone cares.
Maybe you can give a friendly reminder to whoever was looking into it.
Did you see the 3rd point in my earlier post?
One more thing, its never too late.