I think Mod-80 said it right, things happen, maybe in this case for a reason. It seems to me like this girl is on your mind so much that you might not be able to give a different shidduch a proper chance since you might always be thinking, “what if…” So, bidieved now you should probably find someone to look into the situation for you and see if she would be compatible and if it looks possible, try to see if you could go out at least once just so that you’ll have it clear in your heart and mind that if you said no, it’s for a good reason. Also, if you were both at a chesed event, then you already have something in common, which is helpful.
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