I have to share this because sometimes the painfulness of rejection can be dangerous and damaging, c”vs.
Someone did their own hishtadlus and looked me up. Everything went fantastic and then some. The chemistry was clicking all over to where you probably thought you heard crickets in your yard, but it was most likely us, clicking.
We dreamed of a future together and all those things were mutually shared. Then, the parents leveled the hammer and decided cold turkey ending it was the best way for us to go. I was not what they had in mind on paper, I guess. From the little I get from people who know both of us, she is suffering to this day as badly as I am. Although she says she is suffering more, which is not true.
I have nothing more to say about this and am still stunned and very very very messed up.