OnlyTruth- Yes, and it was probably the hardest thing I have ever gone through, and G-d willing it will be the hardest thing I ever have to go through. Sometimes things happen to us in life and all you really have is to cling on to is to Hashem and emunah. I am assuming you had one?
Yossi Z.. it is better to have pain like that, then to have a divorce and even worse pain after. My Rav told me Sometimes neshamas need to make tikkunim with each other for a certain amount of time, to lead them to their true zivug.