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Onlytruth- i dont know if your broken engagement is recent or it happened a while ago, but time heals. It doesn’t matter if you were the one who broke it, or if your the one on the receiving end, no matter what it is painful. But it shapes you, it will make you a stronger person. One day SOOOON you will look back at what happened, and be thankiing Hashem with tears in your eyes because you have found your true zivug and Hashem saved you from something else that could have been detrimental. There are so many people who see warning signs, or for another valid reasons need to break it off, but they are too afraid because the plans are made, and people might think this or think that. But going through with it BEFORE marriage shows strength. And if you were the one who was broken up with, consider that also a bracha because the other person is just a shliach of Hashem. If it happened, it was meant to be. Your not the one who caused it to happen, and you wont ever be thinking if you did the right thing or not. I don’t know what happened, and I wont ask you for details because it is very personal, but Hashem has a plan for you and wiith Hashems help, one day very soon, we will be dancing with you at your chasunah with your TRUE zivug, and with Moshiach Tzidkeinu!