MG and MP, I was not referring to people who live out of town and want to be frum.
I was referring to people who move out of town to divorce themselves from anything jewish.
If you are going OTD and stay near your friends , family etc even if you go, you still have some pull back, but if you totally divorce yourself from your friends and family and anything jewish (even running into a Hasid on the Subway) you are probably gone forever