Reply To: Another Kiruv Question

I was recently at a kiruv training seminar and it was made quite clear that one is not supposed to tell the person she’s working with that she does things that the Torah or Halacha does not allow.( like Toi said) For example if (making up a name here) Melanie says “oh did you see the new movie…” i should not say “yeah it was really good i just went to see it yesterday.” That is completely backwards. I agree with the point some of you made that I should let Melanie know that I am not perfect and that I do struggle but I don’t know how to do that without breaking the cardinal kiruv rule (above).