Reply To: Anyone can help?

Sorry BPguy didn’t see your post before…I wish I could, truth is I would love that!! Ahhh the beach if only I lived near one just sitting near it calms me down, but unfortunately I can’t get away for a few day. Although reading a book or a walk may help..thanks for the advice.

soliek – 🙂 I haven’t been reading the CR so thoroughly, I missed that thread. I wish that was the only stressor but if I can get rid of that one then at least it’ll be a little easier. I understand that, great words of advice from your Rav, really. But it’s easier said than done. Kinda like if you have an anorexic or bulimic friend or a friend who cuts, you can’t force them to stop harming themselves but at the same time every time you see them and you know they are harming themselves you wanna cry (or at least that’s just me) and even though you can’t do anything to help them because they refuse to acknowledge that they have a problem….it still hurts that they’re hurting.

But I was talking with my friend (she keeps Shabbos) about this and her and someone else emailed a Rav and he said the same thing. But it’s hard to just sit and do nothing!!!!

THANK YOU for all the advice, oh my goodness you were extremely helpful I don’t know what I would have said to her if you hadn’t told me what she should do. so THANK YOU!!!!!!!