Ok, so maybe you can compromise on the “work” issue:
You put your “business building” on hold, and take a salary job
She starts taking jobs that fit 80% of her requirements, so the $ starts flowing.
OTOH, JL makes a valid point. If money were not an issue, would all else be A-OK? If so, money is not your problem.
Focus on the root, and all the detail will fall into place.
And to those who say “the CR room is not the place to seek advice” I respecfully disagree.
Were we talking about halacha l’maisa or medical advice, I could see your point. But relationships? We’ve been down the road ourselves, so why not share our experiences? Just because we don’t charge $$$ for the service?