the impression i get from a lot of chassidishe kids here in BP is that their parents raise them to be INCREDIBLY xenophobic. that includes teaching them that all goyim are evil which, regardless of your personal opinions on the matter, is a terrible thing to teach your children especially since we live in a world full of goyim. also…any yid thats different from them…for example someone who wears a coloured shirt…or any woman who doesnt dress like their mother…
i also have found a disturbing although less prevalent trend of chassidishe boys getting the impression that there is something inherently wrong with girls. im not talking about talking to them or hanging out with them or negiah or anything that conflicts with halacha…im talking about just their existence. on more than one occasion i have seen chassidishe boys yelling very rude things at girls who pass by in the streets and it is rather disturbing. granted this particular issue is thankfully not as widespread as the first issue i mentioned, but it happens often enough, as far as i see it, to warrant some kind of intervention.