EzratHash-m…
That was exactly my point.
They see hypocrisy. “Role models” who are ‘frum’ but not yashar, or ‘frum’ (and want their kids to stay frum) but who let it be known and obvious that (for them) frumkeit is a burden (as in ‘shver tsu zein a Yid’).
I doubt if you’ll find too many who go o.t.d. in frum homes that are yashar AND always full of simcha in their Yiddishkeit.