i’ve made one friends shidduch, two people that i set up are in middle of going out, and i’ve red tons. and im 20. and single. the above post is one thousand percent true. it’s no wonder that shidduchim are compared to splitting the sea. that said, i now have a lot more understanding towards the shadchanim and i’ts really great to see all the efforts they invest in their work. however, theres something i’d like to ask. i want to know why when i’ve gone to all the big shadchanim they all say “we will be in touch with you” and months and months go by and i never hear another word from them. granted, my parents are not rolling in the dough, and i may not be THE skinniest girl out there. but from the hundreds of boys you meet, you cant think of ONE? ONE boy that might be good for me? i know how hard it is. but i’ve been to countless shadchanim and i have yet to recieve a call from anyone.
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