It seems apparent that that there is no fear of not getting the names of girls, however, if you made boys put money up front, and deduct a few dollars every time they delay, drag along and waste your (and everyone else’s) time it might put SOME pressure on them to stop comparing the 47 options on their heilige list and make a decision. Seems to me that it is reasonable
Yes, but you can’t do that. You know why? Because the boys won’t put up with it. And they control the market.
Also, I simply don’t know what your issue is with guys looking at their options before getting into a relationship. It is not like they are not dating- they are dating, usually consecutively. Just not dating everyone at the same time.
Look, if you want to solve this part of the problem, you need to use market forces. The only one I know of is a union with collective bargaining. (That is the point of unions, to counter the bargaining position of employers when there is a glut of labor).
So girls should band together and refuse to date any guys who don’t accede to certain conditions.