i agree totally to the person who wrote that people who have ther boys away in yeshiva dont know them at all they are selling them as one thing but wake up he hasnt live with u in a couple of yrs get to know him before u sell him
i resently set up a boy but only once he got to know the girl did his true colors come out and it was not at all what he was protrated to be
and this checking out which can take wks at a time can make all involved crazy if u try to pressure to speed it up they just get nervous