apushatayid: The guys don’t need those bridges, i.e. the professional shadchanim. Most shidduchim are made via non-professional shadchanim, i.e. family, friends, acquaintances, etc. Even if a guy blacked out every single professional shadchan in the world, he would do just fine in shidduchim. (Additionally, your idea is DOA unless every shadchan agrees to it. Good luck with that.) Remember, there are more girls available than guys available.
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