The shadchanim are continuing with their old ideas as much as you people are trying to show and prove how certain age groups are ingnored, such as 21+ age group. Yes, they all were 19 about 2 years ago and no not all of them got married so they still are available and want to get married. Why is it that at a certain age the girls name just go to the bottom of the list or fall off the list, yet the boys names stay on the list and rarely fall off.
So, i told you about the boy in our family who is in the freezer after returning from E.Yisroel. Yes, Boruch Hashem he is every parents wish in all areas and guess what, the parents get resumes, that they could probably bound already and all with 19 year olds. Yesterday, the call came from someone very choshuv in E.Yisroel and guess what the suggestion was also of a 19 year old.
As much as the parents are pressured, the boy is adhering to the freezer rules and when the time comes and he is ready to go ahead , he prefers a girl of at least 22. A girl of 22 is more solid, knows if she really wants a long term learner and by now what her friends are really good for (especially the married ones who already forgot her phone number). This boy is turning 24 and says has no problem with someone 23 or even just about his age.
So, as much as the shaddchanim are trying to wash themselves clean of blame they are not all totally “not guilty”.