BTGuy –
I do understand that. But why did they have to take a private school route? What are we supposed to do exactly? It isn’t fair to us.
I am not saying that there is this grand scheme to manipulate our feelings. I’m not such a conspiracist. However, I do think that on some level this is the – perhaps unconscious – motive of all people who complain about not getting something they do not deserve.
One more thing. How can people say it’s a chillul Hashem when it is part of their contract? There is no manipulating on our part. We are not doing anything wrong. I am fully aware that there are some angry feelings directed at us but angry feelings do not equal chillul Hashem. They may equal guilty conscience. But not chillul Hashem.