zahavasdad:
So if someone wants to be part of the Kehilla you must dress like the Kehilla, so if the uniform of the Kehilla is a white shirt and a rain poncho you must wear it and if you DONT you are not a Ben-Torah and should be ostracized for being differnt
So is your question:
Why is it, that when someone expresses his desire to not be part of a certain society by not conforming to their standards is he perceived as an outsider?
So why when a Kehilla gets together to make community standards and one rov decides the standards are too leninent and tells people not to eat from the Kehilla hasghcha, He is considered a Tzadik
I don’t think I understand what you mean here.