Reply To: To open or not to open (the door on a date)

Could someone kindly inform me what this whole discussion is all about? Holding a door open for someone else? Certainly! If she’d go in first won’t she hold it open for him??? Letting the door slam in her (or his face) is boorishness. What’s this whole mess all about? Am I missing something? (No, not screws, I found them)