Breaking up the family should be the last option, not the first. Nobody on this forum can diagnose this marriage on the internet. Qualified therapists need to get involved and help each side as well as the children. Divorce does not have to be a nasty process. The most important factor has to be the kids. Neither parent can just take the children without going through a process. Each individual case has to be evaluated on its individual merits. If the decision is made to divorce, then the most important factor must be how to go through the process while minimizing the trauma to the kids. I speak from first hand experience. my ex-wife and I did everything in our power to remove the children from the process and are confident that we made the right decisions.
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