thecuriousone
You are correct. More of an effort has to be made in working on middos and chessed. Some will laugh but I really don’t see why girls have all of these chessed programs and projects and boys don’t. Obviously boys have to focus on Torah but Torah without middos is useless.
What would be so bad if once every 2 weeks a Rebbi took boys to a hospital to do bikkur cholim and similar things.