Reply To: There is no Perfect System…

“Maybe dorming”

thats assuming that the kid is the problem. that WOULD work if the kid himself is weak or whatever and the parents are floundering and have no clue what to do with him, sending him out of town or EY may be a very good idea. i was referring more to a case where the family is in no position to make that choice. take my case for example, where no one was going to pay to send me out of town so i was stuck here and had to make the best of it…but its not just me, it happens a lot where kids really have a tough choice to make and no one to pay for some of the choices they might want to make…

i was offered tzedakah essentially my rebbi said he would make arrangements for anywhere i wanted to go but i didnt feel like accepting tzedakah when there were people who were more deserving and needy of it so i went to work, but lets focus on such cases where leaving is not an option.