“Stamemen”, you actually supported what I said. Sometimes we accuse people of transgressing a halocha based upon what we believe the halocha to be. Sometimes we discover that the person actually was following the halocha according to a different opinion, or that the person misunderstood the halocha.
I purposely did not state what the divergent opinions might be as the only proper approach is to ask your own poseik. People who use internet chatrooms in lieu of a Rav are making a mistake. There is no replacement for a Rav who knows you and your situation.