Reply To: HaKaras HaTov -Vital for Good Marriage?

Unfortunately in today’s society, many people have an attitude of “It’s coming tome to me” (someone know this in Yiddish – please write in), or sometime known as entitlment. This a major contribution to the Kafoi Tova attitude we see rampant (I think). It must start in the home when children are still little, to show them how to reject his attitude of being Kafoi Tov. Instead we need to focus and find (on our own) miracles and grfeat Chasodim from Hashem as well as from people. – I know someone who sent a small gift of appreciation to Rav Breuer ZT”L. The donor promptly received a letter in mail from Rav Breuer saying how underserving he was of the present and how much he appreciated it. It seems that this is the attitude we need to inculcate children so that when they reach “The Parsha”, this will be built ino the personality. Please provide feednack, stories etc.

Thank you