funny cuz we were gonna do this bf it was “in style” now it is done all the time its like simchas chosen v kallah but in a bar mitzvah version
in todays time when nobody can afford its nice in way that people r not just inviting everybody and starving there family in a dark house afterwards if u r close enough u would understand grow up adn just say mazel tov if u have not much to do with them just throw out invitation