I am pretty much a straight shooter and get very upset about people who lie to get on programs, but if you qualify legitimately then there is no reason you should not get it. The programs are there for those who need it and should be used by those people.
To heimishe mom, sorry but I don’t think his moving in with his family is a good idea. Single adults need to live as adults with an adults responsibilities. Living at home is usually not a good idea for the single or for the family. Any way if he was married would you tell him to move into his family with his wife? So why should he do so because he is single?