snjn: because if it’s about priorities then there should be rougthly the same number of older single guys as there are older single girls.
the girls who aren’t pretty etc. and the guys who insist on pretty…
HOWEVER, the guys seem to all be getting married.
Please explain that phenomana….
is it true that guys insist on pretty etc. perhaps. Does that casue the crisis… NO, that simply determines which girls get stuck not how many
(i apologize if i sound like a broken tape recordet, i’ve been repeating this same idea for over four years now….)
or do you really think that in the non chassidishe communites there are roughtly the same number of older single guys as older single girls…
for the purposes of this discussion the term older means they have been dating more than five years. (not that i really think that should be considered older, but simply becuae we need to have a working definition of what we are discussing.