Like I said, you should generalize. We are talking about a large group of people; if we can say things that apply to most of them, we can understand the large scale dynamics.
If you are talking about me, it would make no sense to generalize, since I am only one person. You couldn’t generalize if you tried.
I was merely stating that when people say things like all girls want learning boys and therefore all girls are shallow, it just seems like you are trying to make excuses for yourself
Make excuses for myself? What would I need to excuse?
If you think I was a working guy, then I would be the injured, not the injurer.
If you think I was a learning guy, then I would be neither the injurer nor the injured.
The only way I would need an excuse and my explanation would be the excuse would be if I was the one telling guys that they needed to learn. And then I would be excusing that by saying I needed to say it so that they would get shidduchim.