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oomis:

“It was Hashem who created 50 more girls than boy”

um, not it wasn’t….

Rc:

please clarify which of the 13 basic principles of jewsih faith the following eihter of the following two statments violate

1. there are more jewish children in 1st grade than in 5th grade

2. Girls begin dating at 19, boys at 22/23

To the best of my knowledge neither of those statements constitute Kefira. these two statements dictate tha unless we change something we will continue to have hundreds and hundreds of older single girls.

Since it’s unlikely that we will change the bracha of a growing population, the most reasonable course of action is to work on the second statment and see what could be done about that.

Is this kefira????

Eliezer: I have lost bitachon??? How would you know that?? I have simply stated we need to get to work fast and hard because to sit back and expect it to sovle itslef is begeder relying on a neis which we are not allowed to do. If we allow the present situation to continue without making changes then the present reality will b’derech hateva continue.

If you ask, Is it solvable? the anser is ABSOLUTELY YES YES YES. But it won’t happen by itself….. Many solutions have been proposed in this vary forum and much progress has already been made, despite constant objection at every step of the way from misguided people who would prefer to let things just fix themselves….