Reply To: Frustrated Mothers of Girls: Can we hear your ideas

no one has offered a solution. so here is mine although i know it cant be implemented. Boys need to come home earlier from israel. and RYs need to own up to this crisis by imposing takanos that mothers of boys respond in a reasonable amount of time. Shadchanim gain access to boys, RY and rabbeim return phone calls with the utmost urgency, regular pple, friends, neighbors, relatives, agree to redt a shidduch. thats a start and doesnt cost any money!