yoelyfromwilli, I love that!
BUT the Litvish Kollel guys have it too good- commitment of years of support by a wife and inlaws, and the pick of a wife from hundreds of beautiful wealthy professional girls. Guys are in no rush to get married, they get it all when theyre 29+ as well.
Hashem Yerachem on the girls. With all this suffering, theyre urged to pay loads of money to get special attention of Shadchanim, so that they can grab a chair in Musical Chairs for themselves, as if they are undesirables, who otherwise have a low likelihood of marrying.