I also think that QB was using it as an extreme example to try to show that a system where women are completely reliant on men isn’t foolproof. I’m not sure what your point has to do with that (let’s leave Women’s Lib out of it).
she specifically said she’s a feminist and she believes in women’s lib, did you read her post or just mine?, if you didn’t, (and even if you did) I’ll provide it below with bold for emphasis
I just realized that in essence that would mean that the tannaim and amoraim always sided with the husband which isn’t true
Now a different scenario: husband gets sick of wife and kicks her out. So the woman is homeless without a job or money and five kids. She has no degree so she can’t get a good job, and if women don’t work how could she get any job? So what happens to her and the kids?
By women going out and working it gives them confidence and gratification.
I Just realized something else, women don’t get gratification from housework?, I think they used to (now they want a cleaning lady)
In a perfect world, all men would be sweet and awesome guys who would take care, provide, and love their wife and kids. But we don’t live in a perfect world and women all over the world suffer due to the men. I think every woman should have the means to provide for herself just in case she may have to be on her own one day. To rely on a man and be so helpless is actually pretty scary.