Hi postal.
I hear what you are saying, and it makes sense.
I wonder why this site does not have a shidduch section, or something.
Being a single man, and I am sure there are others on this site who may be able to relate, I would consider meeting someone for marriage, yet I read posts from ladies here saying they are having a hard time.
So, here I am, and people like me, reading about someone having a hard time. And there is the other person, with the hard time, on the other side of the computer, and there is no bridge in between.
The irony of technology.
Anyway, hatzlacha to everyone in any situation or condition. We all deserve to find our other half and must believe they are, in fact, out there somewhere.