Parable.
Yankle hurts Moshe – for no reason at all.
Moshe gets upset and says he’s not moichel Yankle.
Yankle says, oh but you really should be moichel me (even though I’m not even acknowledging that I did something wrong). You ask Hashem 3x day for Mechilla. Also, if you’re moichel me, Hashem will be lenient with you.
How heartwarming.