just because the chosson/kallah think this is a way of communication it is totally not.
have you seen the world these days becoming better at the act of communication? NO! nowadays no one knows how to communicate they just know how to write things and that definitely doesnt help them have a relationship. They’ll get married and still have to text each other and not talk because they dont know how to do that(if texting and facebooks was the prefered method of communication.)