I’m not talking about the non-frum kids or their parents. That I can understand. In fact, I hope to be able to go on a kiruv trip in my school next year (if I can raise the money).
I’m talking about the FRUM community. And pba, I DO think it’s gaava to assume that these balabatim are amaratzim just because they’re not in kollel. Just the fact that they’re going to these learning sessions 2 hours a day, as said in the OP, on top of their very busy schedules makes that absolutely demeaning to working people.
And you haven’t answered my question, by the way.