Pesach tips. I have the best pesach tips.
Go to your parents the first days, and your inlaws the last days. This way, when you show up all the hard work is already done. And on motzei yontiff when there is all sorts of work to do, nobody gets mad at you for slinking off because you are a son-in-law (or daughter in law).
Don’t tell your spouse this cheshbon.