Hi lovebeingjewish..dont have time to read teh rest of the posts, but jst to tell u – during pregnancy anything is normal! i know plenty of people who wont go near the kitchen for at least the first 3-5 months of pregnancy and some who cant go near the kitchen all 9 months of pregnancy. The hormones in a woman can cause her to have mood swings, burst out crying for no apparent reason, get annoyed or moody at anything or everything – i dont know why it happens – and for people who it happens to within the first year of marriage it can be really difficult and really trying on their shalom bayis. The woman cant help what she’s going through, her body is changing in a way that’s never happened before and she’s at loss to what is happening as much as you are. The only thing you can do is do your best to try and be understanding – even though u feel like smashing your head against a brick wall, do as much as you can to help out when she feels ill – even though u feel like running away and iyh it will pass and your marriage will be much stronger because of it. She will appreciate it – even though she may not be able to show it now or may not even realise it now – she will afterwards and things will get better. Good luck!
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