Although the tone of the original thread is most certainly out of line and demeans those that are holding up Klal Yisroel worldwide, the larger question is – Is this what Hashem really wants?
That certainly is the real concern, and some of your concerns are valid.
When I have a question and want to know what Hashem wants, and I think I am not qualified to answer the question, I ask people who know more torah than do I.
And I’m assuming that is what the people in question are doing.