I Think most of you are being insensitive to her feelings. Right now this is her nisayon and she needs to get over it, which i.y.H. she will.As with all emotional pain, time will heal. Hoping you meet your basherte very soon!
Health, not to diminish your pain in any way, BUT each to his own, hearing that someone is worse off never made any nisoyon easier for me.SHE NEEDS TO BE ABLE TO GO ON WITH HER LIFE,AS YOU ALSO SHOULD.