a mamin i totally agree with you- when someone is going through hardship, they don’t want to hear about other ppls hardships. that does not help.
the decision to be happy and move forward must come from within. No one can tell you to do it- it won’t be real. and then eventually, u’ll fall back.
and popa- i think you were trying to be funny, but sometimes, it just doesn’t work. that was not appropriate for this situation, and it doesn’t help. i think if you don’t have something even halfway intelligent to say, please keep it to yourself.
shidduch girl and post sem- wishing you both hatzlacha in finding your basherts (which should be b’karov, and with clarity of thought, and with confidence in your decision), and i hope that you overcome this challenge with flying colors and continue to live a life full of happiness and bracha, and plenty, and health, and the Yad Hashem should be with you in everything you do.
~{] *YC* [}~