far east – No, that’s what PC people like you are saying, except you’re saying it’s murder.
If s/o is stalking you & you’re scared – you run. You don’t stand and turn to face your attacker unless you have no choice.
If s/o is beating you and they’re on top of you -you defend yourself anyway you can.
It’s amazing how the people who have adorned themselves with PC in our generation have lost any amount of common sense.
And not just that -they think they can push their illogical mumbo-jumbo on others who actually think for a living!