Reply To: Memoir called "Unorthodox" and its effect on us

I can relate to much of what you say, BTGuy and yiddishemishpacha. That really was my point in starting the topic. We, here on the inside know very well about not only all the different nuances within the frum community, but more importantly, the tremendous amount of goodness that generates from us. From Deborah’s own community, Satmar Bikur Cholim is a prime example.

However, since most secular Jews see us in one lump sum called “Orthodox”, her story becomes our story. Her story goes mainstream, and next thing you know, secular Jews are sure that this is how we live. Perhaps one of my main concerns is the impact this can have on kiruv, or even general goodwill.