BS”D
what is wrong with you?
Nothing. I saw the same thing as well (Zdad said every, MS said mostly). Let’s be fair.
MS to a certain extent (maybe even subconsciously) takes this personally, as the author rejected MS’s position in life (a Satmer/Chassidish Housefrau) to be “free”. To a certain extent she is justifying why the author is different, and why MS made the correct choice.
To MS: There is no need to justify your choice. The Torah and Hashem is your justification.